Tuesday, December 31, 2013

New Year's Resolutions

As 2013 draws to a close, I wanted to wish each of you a blessed & Happy New Year!

2013 was filled with incredible memories for me:

  • I graduated Undergraduate and Graduate School in ONE DAY 
  • I traveled cross country with D in his Mazda for a grand total of 9,000 miles
  • I took a summer off to go to the beach
  • I found a job in my field, which I am so fortunate to have!
  • I moved into my first real girl apartment with a good friend
  • I paid my first bill
  • I celebrated my Golden Birthday! I am so happy to be 24 (It's my lucky #)

On a sad note, I was also witness to the Boston Marathon Bombing, as I volunteered at the finish line that day. Also, my loving and beautiful dog, Lily, passed away earlier this year.

I am so grateful that my incredible memories far outshine the painful memories of this year. I hope the same for you!

My New Year's Resolutions for this year will be to continue to cross items off of my 101 in 1001 list. Also, I plan to rid myself of people who I secretly despise in my life. I wish to surround myself with people who are going to lift me higher to reaching my goals and dreams.

If you are having trouble coming up with a resolution, take a look a the links below.

20 Things to Let Go of Before the New Year

25 New Year's Resolutions Everyone Should Follow

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Monday, December 30, 2013

The Necessary Nine

Happy Monday! I hope your weekend was as relaxing as mine. I spent the weekend getting caught up on Breaking Bad. It's getting so good! I'll be sad when it's over. I'm starting to think that Walter White is a real person.

Any who, I was inspired to write this latest blog post by a lovely couple who are getting married in May! They haven't shared a registry yet, so I am jumping on this opportunity to suggest a few things that they should register for!

Typical registries for weddings are at Macy's, Bed Bath & Beyond, Crate & Barrel, William and Sonoma, Pottery Barn, and Pier One. I perused a few of the mentioned sites above, and here my necessary nine of what couples should register for:




I love Le Creuset. The cookware has a lifetime warrantee. I love the kelly green color.

Oxo designs are so well thought of. From cheese graters, to measuring cups, I want it all!

Food looks best on white. No cream. No off-white. No exceptions.

Again Oxo. Everyone needs fresh sea salt and pepper.

Good knives are literally life savers in the kitchen when cutting and chopping.

Glass is greener than plastic. I love the colored tops of these containers.

I love glassware for every day drinks. Goblets make drinking water more fun.

8. Blender
For smoothies in the summer and pureed soups in the winter.

I like the juice catcher along the edges of this cutting board.

Are you registering for an occasion coming up in 2014? What are your necessary items?

Friday, December 27, 2013

Have a Great Weekend

It's certainly the most wonderful (and busy) time of year! Christmas is over and done with. I spent the day in New Hampshire with my family. Unfortunately, I only had Wednesday off from work. I am looking forward to relaxing this weekend and finally seeing some friends of mine who I haven't seen in weeks! How I've missed you!

NO post-Christmas shopping for me. However, that doesn't stop be from perusing around online. There are some fabulous sales going on...

I discovered Joe Fresh last weekend when I went to NYC. The whole store was 40% off. Amazeballs. I purchased this cashmere sweater in lilac. I am also eyeing this blouse.

O my... Piperlime is 50% off sale items until Dec. 27th using the code EXTRA. I love this champagne blouse. And this silk top's back is to dieee for!

And this dress is on sale for just under $100. Find it here.
Happy Shopping
&
Have a great weekend!

**Update** The blue dress pictured above is no longer available; however, the black option is on sale for $42!!!

Thursday, December 26, 2013

Only The Good Die Young

12 years ago today, my family and I lost a very dear person in our lives--my Uncle George. Thinking of you today. Your spirit is never forgotten.

xoxo

Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas to you and your family! 


Love, 
The Jodoin Family
xoxo

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

The F Word

Hey everyone, another guest post from Adriana!

What does a feminist look like?

A lesbian, who doesn’t shave her armpits, and screams about how “men suck!”…right?

Wrong, actually. I am a feminist. And yes, sometimes I prefer to shower every couple of days and shaving is usually a tremendous success for me, but my hygiene routine has nothing to do with my beliefs on gender equality. In my opinion, feminism has received a bad name in the media. Instead of “feminism” being a word describing determination, strength, courage, and equality, it has become a word to describe bitchiness, loudness, annoyance, and a joke.

The real definition of feminism is the desire for the complete equality of men and women. That’s it. No gimmicks. No men hating. Just equality! Not so extreme, right?

Although this stress-free definition is the true meaning of feminism, women and men seem afraid to label themselves as it because of the stereotypes. Well, I’ve decided that my life will be best served if I stand up for what’s important to me and to society. If I, a relatively “normal” person, can identify as a feminist, then hopefully others won’t be so afraid to join the cause.

You might be wondering… “What is there to fight for? Aren’t we equal? Hey, we have voting rights!” True, my friends. But there is still a lot of ground we need to cover. And in my opinion, it’s the small things that individual people have the power to change! For example, if you’re a woman…Do you ever feel worried about walking alone at night because you’re wearing a short skirt? Do you casually omit your opinions in front of guys out of fear of rejection? Do you hear “feminine” terms used as derogatory insults for men? Do you feel as though your worth is your body, in the eyes of men and the media? These are small examples that I’ve noticed from my life. All I want is to feel safe, respected, and validated as a person.

I want to embrace the term “feminism” to shatter the glass ceiling for women in all domains of life. Women and men should be able to pursue whatever brings them happiness. Although women face critiques in the public and private spheres often, men also have a role to fulfill: a tough, autonomous, “masculine” demeanor. If men represent any kind of emotional competence, automatically they will be considered homosexual. The small boxes of masculinity and femininity create unhappiness because they are unattainable standards. I try to use my knowledge of feminism to promote acceptance of all behaviors of men and women, without the strict guidelines of masculinity and femininity.

Summary on how to use our gender knowledge:
  • Accept the behaviors and activities of men and women (ex. Little boys learning ballet, fuck yeah! Adult women taking control of their sexuality, rock on!)
  • Feminism is the desire for the complete equality of men and women! (Promote this accurate definition. If you’re interested in learning more, the links below are awesome and interesting resources!)
  • Do you. Don’t let gender restrictions control your life. Act the way you feel and eventually the dichotomous gender boundaries will start to blur, and society will begin to accept all forms of identity expression.
Peace & Love,
Adriana

Some interesting videos and websites:



Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Christmas Gift Guide for the Camper/Hiker

I enjoy camping and hiking very much. This hobby of mine was brought about in the later years of high school. I often camped and hiked with my best friend, R. Since I began seriously hiking and camping more in college, I've accrued some pretty awesome gear along the way. My favorite stores to shop for all the necessities are EMS and REI. I also shop at Target for the smaller things.

The following is a gear checklist which I take with me when camping & hiking:

Kelty is a good brand, and they have a lifetime warrantee that you can't go wrong with.

I have this one, and I love it. I sleep warmly even in 32 degree temps.

If you are going to purchase a sleeping pad, I recommend the brand NEMO.

This Therm-a-Rest Compressible pillow was mine and D's best friend on our road trip. We not only used it for sleeping each night, but we sat on it, put it on our lower backs for support, or used it as a napping pillow on those 6-hour car rides. It's the small things in life...
D has this lantern, and we take it on all of our camping trips. Trust me; it's worth the $50!

You need a head lamp. Only having a lantern will NOT do. A head lamp leaves you hand-free. When you aren't using it, you can always wear it around your neck as a necklace...

This size is perfect for day hikes. It's important to find a day pack with chest and waist straps for added back support. If it has a bladder compartment, it's even better.

Get the 3 Liter bladder. You will wish you did on those longer hikes and hot days. D and I have a 3L bladder each, and we've gone through all 6L a few times.

It's a must have for wood chopping and protection.

Those are the essentials. My checklist also includes camping chairs, clothing, boots, fire wood, water/food, first aid kit, tarp, & rope. I will make sure to do a future post on my favorite campgrounds and hikes.

I hope this was helpful! Camping and hiking is a great way to exercise and enjoy nature with friends & family! See what fun times you could have too...













Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Invest in Positive Friendships

Hey everyone, another guest post from Adriana!

You could call me a true optimist. During good or bad situations, I always believe that the Universe planned my life to happen that way. Even in a downright awful circumstance, I think the situation can be manipulated once I change my cognitions about it.

However, there are days when people are sucking the life out of me. All I want to do is cry, verbally abuse them on Facebook, or leave an angry voicemail to get my point across. I get frustrated; I try to cope; and, sometimes, I forget the skills to overcome this negativity.

But then, clarity strikes. I see the negative people as they are: Negative. Never changing. Soul-sucking. Fucking horrible. I realize that their pessimism is exactly why I got rid of them in the first place.

In middle school and high school, it is acceptable to keep friends who serve you no purpose. They may be gossipers, arrogant, self-absorbed, or ignorant, but you keep them around anyways. Worst of all, you never stand up to them. You let them bully others and even yourself. You begin to believe their bullshit banter and you leave your opinions in the dust because of fear. The fear of rejection. But, as you age, you realize, “WHY AM I FRIENDS WITH ASSHOLES?”

Great question, right? Why do we settle for shitty friends? Guess what! We don’t have to. There is a choice involved. As Oprah once said, “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.” Let’s dedicate our time to those who bring us support, love, and acceptance. It’s important to be surrounded by those who celebrate your achievements as though they are rejoicing their own. Mumford & Sons has a song, “Awake My Soul,” which lyrics say: “And where you invest your love, you invest your life.” So, let’s invest our love wisely. Get rid of the negative people.

But if you don’t trust me, trust Miley when she says...
“Forget the haters, 'cause somebody loves ya.”
Peace & Love,
Adriana

Monday, December 16, 2013

Sweater Dress Finds

Happy Monday everyone!

Last week's intention didn't go so great, to be honest. I probably drank only 4-6 cups of water a day. My water bottle's straw also broke, so overall, I need to keep working on hydration.

This week's intention will be to finish Christmas shopping for my friends & family.
Coincidently, I'm looking to buy my parents a water bottle each. I also need to buy D a gift (we'll leave that a surprise!). Finally, I need another small gift for my older sister. I may consult my list of what to buy for girls.

Adriana asked me what I want for Christmas, and I didn't know at first. But, I spent the weekend with my friend, and she was wearing the cutest sweater dress with tights, and an idea came to me... a sweater dress! Below are the options that I've sent to Adriana for myself. Which is your favorite? [Numbers are links below.]

1 :: 2 :: 3 :: 4 :: 5 :: 6 [only $20!!!] :: 7 :: 8

Have a great week! Only 9 more days til Christmas!

Thursday, December 12, 2013

Making Peace With Yourself Post Breakup

Hey everyone, another guest post from my sister, Adriana!

I don’t know about you, but my transition into college wasn’t as smooth as I had expected. I had recently broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years, left my hometown in New Hampshire and my best friends, and moved to Boston to start a new life (Cue the song Boston by Augustana!). I thought this new adventure would be pretty easy. I have an outgoing personality, so I figured I would make a huge friend group within weeks that resembled my crazy friends from back home. Well, I did make a bunch of new friends with all different perspectives and personalities but not necessarily the group of partygoers and heart-to-heart seekers as I pride myself to be. However, these people, thankfully, were my sanity during a rough period of my life at 18-years-old during a sort-of quarter-life-crisis.

To hide my semi-depressive emotions and newly found anxieties, I jumped right into psychology classes, a program to teach underprivileged preschoolers, and a student group that my sister was involved with. These activities kept me incredibly busy, so my mind didn’t have time to process or care about my unhappiness in Boston. On the weekends, I would avoid my pain by getting so drunk and trying to find cute guys to get my mind off of my ex. This usually would result in shitty pizza (Go BHOP!) and vomiting the next morning. Casual, casual times.

After two years of venting sessions, tears, drunken calls, and an on-again/off-again relationship, I finally realized that my high school relationship was just that: a high school relationship that should stay in high school. It was April of my sophomore year of college and the bad vibes and stress of my previous relationship were finally in the fucking past. But, something was still lingering in my mind. Anxiety and occasional bits of depression. It’s strange…when you’re going through a break-up, all of your behaviors are directed to your happiness and recovery. I would go to the gym all the time, download new music, read intriguing books, and make time for friends. However, once you’re over the relationship, those self-loving behaviors go out the window. That’s exactly what happened the spring of my sophomore year. I wasn’t proactive about my happiness anymore. I was dormant. Additionally, my unhappiness translated in to my social life. I didn’t want to meet new people or go to parties. I was content with spending time with the same old people and doing the same old things. To make it worse, I went home to New Hampshire all the time to hide the fact that I hated my social life in Boston.

After spending a significant amount of time with my best friends from New Hampshire, I learned some critical lessons. Be who you are. Be crazy. Be weird. Be smart. Be philosophical. Be fucking you. If people can’t hang with your fantastic qualities, fucking PEACE! It’s strange, I know my personality is sometimes larger than life…and I always felt like I had to underplay it. I was worried I was too much to handle. But whooooo cares?! Here are some quotes that I re-blogged on my tumblr page that have really reflected my consciousness recently:

"There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.” - Nelson Mandela 

"There are times when you don’t know yourself. There are times when you don’t want to know yourself. There are times when you want to be what you have never allowed yourself to be before." - Aidan Chambers

"Stop being tormented by everyone else’s reaction to you." - Joyce Meyer

"Self belief does not necessarily ensure success, but self disbelief assuredly spawns failure." -Albert Bandura

"There is no beauty without some strangeness." Edgar Allan Poe 

"One of the greatest journeys in life is overcoming insecurity and learning to truly not give a shit." - J.A. Konrath


“If you cannot find a group whose consciousness matches your own, be the source of one. Others of like consciousness will be drawn to you.”  -Neale Donald Walsch


In this last quote from Neale Donald Walsch, I have taken his advice. I have become a person who is true to myself. Eventually, I will find a group of people that reflect my consciousness. Luckily, I already have some fantastic friends who do! In 2011, I embarked unknowingly in to a philosophical journey that led my soul back to they way it felt when I was 12. I’m that crazy kid again, just trying to generate some laughs and save the world through psychology. Who knew it would take a heartbreak, a change of scenery, and some philosophical lessons to get my soul back to its comfort zone. Thank God.

Peace & Love,
Adriana

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Christmas Gift Guide for Her

I hope you enjoyed the Christmas gift guide for the boys. As promised, here is the gift guide for the ladies in your life. I have some pretty sweet women in mine: my mom, sisters, and close girlfriends. I usually get my sisters exactly what they ask for. My mom, on the other hand, is usually tricky to buy for. She doesn't come right out and say what she wants. This year, I'm getting her some earrings from Lia Sophia and a water bottle that she can take to work and out on errands. If you are also having trouble on what to get a lady in your life, I think there could be at least one item in my gift guide for her!
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Vest :: iPhone Case :: Coconut Oil :: Hempz Lotion :: Candle :: EOS Egg


1. Boots Adriana is asking for these beauties. Perfect for walks up and down Newbury &
    Boylston in the winter.
2. Sunglasses Adriana also is asking for these. I'm in search of a new pair myself. Any
    suggestions for my oval-shaped face?
3. Watch I asked for a watch. Watches are trendy these days; however, mine will be very
    practical for work.
4. PJs Thermal PJs in cute patterns. Adorable.
5. Panties Love the lace trimmed cheekies. Thin enough to not notice through pants.
6. Makeup Just got a Sephora gift card from my girlfriend. This eyeshadow compact is
    perfect for everyday wear.
7. Vest Love these J.Crew vests! One for everyone in the family!
8. iPhone Case For all of you who need a nice case for your phone.
    Kate Spade has adorable patterns!
9. Coconut Oil I know many girls who use coconut oil as their everyday lotion.
10. Hempz Lotion What's better on just shaven legs? NOTHING (except maybe coconut 
      oil)!
11. Candle This scent is amazing.
12. EOS Egg Girls are swearing by this chapstick these days. I have yet to try.
      I'm more of a Burt's Bees kinda girl.

Happy shopping! What's on your wish list this year? 

Monday, December 9, 2013

Setting Intentions

Happy Monday y'all!

Hope your weekend was fun-filled and fabulous. Onto another work week, and the countdown to the holidays continues. I find it hard to believe that 2013 is slowly coming to an end. It seems like just a few weeks ago that I graduated with my Masters and D and I went on our epic road trip.

Seeing that the year is almost over, it's time to start think about New Years resolutions. I know it's cliche to set New Years resolutions, but I'm a fan. It keeps me focused and driven to accomplish something outside of work. As you may know, I already keep a list of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I'll admit, I haven't been the best about updating my list. This will soon change...

From now on, every Monday, I plan to jot down a weekly intention. This intention, big or small, will be a goal that I wish to accomplish by the end of the week. I came interested in the idea of setting a weekly intention during a recent yoga class. Our yoga instructor had us set an intention to accomplish by the end of the class. Mine was to not give up during those intense poses and keep focused on my breath. Seems easy, but I worked hard to accomplish that intention.

I ask you to set a weekly intention with me. I always found that if I had someone holding me accountable for my goals that I was more likely to follow through with them.

My intention this week is to drink 8 glasses of water each day.

A beautiful sunset to get your week off to a good start.
Good luck setting your intention and resolutions! I'm excited to share my Christmas gift guide for the ladies tomorrow! Did you see the men gift guide?

Friday, December 6, 2013

Have a Nice Weekend

This weekend is filled with fun! Tonight my friends and I are headed to Rhode Island to wish my good friends, R and V, a tearful goodbye. They are moving back to Mississippi after three years of living in Rhode Island.

R & V: I'm gunna miss you so much! I always looked forward to our crazy, camping adventures. I will never forget my first experience at Bonnaroo with you either. Our future is bright with many more memories to come! See you in May at your wedding! xoxo
"Who the hell parked in our parking spot."

R, D, me, & V at my Golden Birthday
On Saturday, D and I are headed to his company's end of the year/holiday party. I'm a wee bit nervous to meet his coworkers and bosses. It should be a fun time though! Let the holiday parties begin!

Check out these posts that you may have missed over the weekend:

Christmas Gift Guide for Him

Beauty and the Bees

Whole Body Cleanse

Have a good one!

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Santorini





I think I've found heaven on Earth. The beach, colors, and architecture. Wow!
Anyone ever been to Santorini? Adriana is going to Greece this summer! I'm excited to hear about her trip when it's over. I see a Europe trip happening for me in the next few years.

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Christmas Gift Guide for Him

Why are guys so hard to shop for when it comes to Christmas? Luckily, I have one male that I shop for in my family, my one and only daddy. My boyfriend and I don't usually exchange gifts; however, a few girlfriends of mine were asking me recently what they should buy their significant others. Whether you are shopping for your dad, brother, boyfriend, or grandfather, I think there could be at least one item in my gift guide for him!
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Massage :: Book :: Power Washer ::  PJs

1. Wallet Most of the men in my life carry a trifold. Are you a bifold or a trifold kinda guy?
2. Sunglasses Sexy aviators.
3. Power washer- For all those men who love outdoor work (ahem, my sweetheart)
4. Shirt- These shirts are the BEST. Non-iron. Fitted. Amazing.
5. Framed photo- Frame a photo of you two. Love the dark wood.
6. Massage for one (or two)- This spa is a favorite of mine, located in Manchester, NH
7. Good book- My dad loves the James Patterson series
8. Moleskin notebook- Pocket sized. You never know when you need to create a
    shopping list or just doodle. These notebooks are great for everyone.
9. PJ pants- For him, but secretly for you to wear at his place

Look out for a gift guide for the ladies next week! Happy shopping!

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Christmas Cards Through the Years

Wow! Thank you so much for the positive feedback from Adriana's posts (here, here, and here). She has more posts written, which I will post in the near future, so keep coming back for more! Keeping with the sister theme...

As Christmas approaches, my family and I begin to think about what picture we will use in our annual Christmas card. The picture always includes my sisters and me, and sometimes my dad makes an appearance. It's hard to choose which picture will be the winner because my sisters and I want to make sure that each of us looks presentable. 

Adriana and I rummaged through the photo books and found some old Christmas card photos that we've used.... o the gems! Take a look below.

1997 in Jamaica 
2001 in Aruba

Dad makes an appearance in 2002!

2004? 

2009
On Martha's Vineyard in 2011

Last year hiking
Do you have a Christmas card tradition? 
Let the games begin on trying to find this year's photo!

PS Don't miss tomorrow's post...a Christmas gift guide for the boys!

Monday, December 2, 2013

Adriana's December Playlist

Hey everyone! Happy Monday! Enjoy another guest post from Adriana!

I am obsessed with finding music, old and new, that hits an emotional hot spot. Here are some songs that I’ve been listening to recently which have sparked my interest. I hope that one song will be unfamiliar to you and could possibly connect with you somehow. Shout-out to my friends who showed me these songs in the first place! Enjoy J

Adriana’s December Playlist 


Romantic Power Ballad: Lay Me Down by Sam Smith
Instrumental Jam: Ocean by John Butler
I Still Love You Song: Video Games by Lana Del Ray
Feelin’ Funky: Funky Tonight by John Butler Trio
Perseverance Song: Hold On by Alabama Shakes
I Moved On Song: Lesson Learned by Alicia Keys feat. John Mayer
Let’s Drunk-Dance Song: Latch by Disclosure feat. Sam Smith
I Love You Song: Love On Top by Beyonce
Casual Rock: Revelry by Kings of Leon
Sleepy Time Jazz: What Am I To You by Norah Jones
Kick-Ass Girl Jam: Another Girl by Wild Belle
Work-Out Song: Wild For The Night by ASAP Rocky feat. Skrillex & Birdy Nam Nam
Best 90’s Flashback Song: Wannabe by The Spice Girls
Current fav. John Mayer Song: On The Way Home by John Mayer
You’re Drunk & You See Your Ex: Hurricane Drunk by Florence + the Machine


Peace & Love,
Adriana